For any of you out there reading this that might be experiencing your own marital issues like separation or divorce, while scouring the wonderful Offbeat Bride site, I came across this two-part article that I wish had been around when I was going through this. Some advice is better than the rest, but overall its just a good chronicling of someone else's experiences. Hopefully someone will find this useful.
Offbeat Divorce, Part 1: The Struggling
Offbeat Divorce, Part 2: The Separating
And for anyone looking for rad unusual wedding ideas, the main website this is on, Offbeat Bride is super helpful. :)